Another Article: “Helping Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse”

This article comes to us from and I believe it is really important reading for the pastors who come to this site wanting to understand what is happening and how abuse affects victims as adults. (A warning for abuse survivors that there are a few sentences in the article that describe what constitutes sexual abuse, and this may be disturbing to some.)

But there is great stuff here. Including …

These truths about childhood sexual abuse and its effects have enormous implications for pastors. They will keep a pastor from telling a victim, “That was such a long time ago. Why don’t you just get over it and move on?” These truths will remind a pastor that survivors are often sexually promiscuous or struggle with chemical addiction, so he can address the underlying issue and not just the obvious behavior problems. They will also prevent him from shaming the survivor for her sinful actions, and thus adding to her despair.  Equally important, the informed pastor will realize he must always refer sexual abuse victims for additional help.

Please check it out and let us know what you thought: “Innocence Lost” Helping Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse by Marnie C. Ferree

About Bangladesh MKs Speak

We are a group of American former missionary kids (MKs) who lived in Bangladesh while Donn Ketcham worked as a missionary doctor there with the mission agency Association of Baptists for World Evangelism (ABWE) out of Harrisburg, Pennsylvania.
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1 Response to Another Article: “Helping Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse”

  1. This is a very good article that everyone should read to help understand what childhood abuse does in relation to long-term effects. This statement stood out to me.
    “Experts believe that the family response to abuse is more important than the abuse itself in terms of the long-term effects.”
    Many in boarding schools did not tell their parents about the abuse. A child believes their parents know everything. We believing our parents knew of the abuse and approved of it. In the mission environment the mission itself has image to a child of being family. The missions as a whole have denied our abuse. Yes many have finally dealt with some but not until much damage had already been done. Just heard a report that two third of the marriages from one group have ended in divorce.

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